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Paradoxes & Polarity

In Short

In Detail

Paradoxes & Polarity is a professional development resource designed to help coaches, leaders, and facilitators navigate tensions that cannot be solved, only managed. It sits within the category of Polarity management and paradox navigation, making it particularly useful for practitioners working on capability development, team performance, and individual growth in organisational settings.

In practice, Paradoxes & Polarity is delivered as a 6-step process. The process begins by identify whether the challenge is a problem to solve (either/or) or a polarity to manage (both/and -- no permanent solut. The session closes by agree a rhythm of attention that oscillates between both poles. The structured approach ensures that participants move through a consistent experience while leaving room for the facilitator to adapt pacing and depth to the group's needs.

Paradoxes & Polarity is most valuable when practitioners need a reliable, repeatable approach that can be adapted to different contexts without losing its core structure. It bridges the gap between conceptual understanding and practical application, making it a durable addition to any coaching or facilitation toolkit.

How to Use

Based on Barry Johnson's Polarity Management. 1. Identify whether the challenge is a problem to solve (either/or) or a polarity to manage (both/and -- no permanent solution). 2. Draw the Polarity Map: name the two poles (e.g., Results vs Relationships). 3. Map the upsides of both poles and the downsides of each when over-focused. 4. Identify the current position -- which pole has been over-focused and what are the warning signs? 5. Identify early warning indicators and action steps for each pole. 6. Agree a rhythm of attention that oscillates between both poles.

Pros and Cons

Pros Cons
  • Directly addresses the challenge of navigate tensions that cannot be solved, only managed through a structured, repeatable approach
  • Adaptable to different seniority levels, team sizes, and organisational contexts
  • Generates actionable insight that participants can apply immediately in their work
  • Effectiveness varies based on the facilitator's skill level and familiarity with the tool
  • Requires adequate time for both the exercise and a meaningful debrief to realise full value
  • May not be appropriate for all cultural contexts without adaptation

Created by Barry Johnson

When to Use

This tool is suited to the following coaching and facilitation contexts:

Context Relevant
Individual Coaching
Team Coaching
Leadership Development
Facilitation / Workshop
Online / Virtual